One of the most popular search terms on Google regarding Narcissism is How to Spot a Narcissist. The reader is then given pages of numerous links to delve into, all with the hopes of avoiding these real-life vampires. But there is one problem; you can’t really spot a Narcissist…at least not when it matters. They are con artists and have been fooling people for years.
Another sad irony is that people don’t recognize there’s a need to “spot a narcissist” until they have already started losing their sense of self after being in a relationship with one. You probably went most of your life without realizing these people even existed and you are now reading this article because you’re way past the phase of spotting one. You’ve already fallen victim to one’s abuse.
You can’t make sense of the conflicting statements and the sudden put-downs by your partner. You…
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